Pressure Points

Do not be anxious about anything, but in everything by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known to God. And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:6-7 (NIV)



Change is good. It can be invigorating and inspirational. Having to adapt to new procedures, lifestyle adjustments, money issues, etc, can come with change. With change it’s easy to look at life, and especially the calendar, as a series of obstacles to be removed—boxes where finished tasks are checked off.

I’ve found that relationships can suffer when change abounds. I call these times ”pressure points.” When things get busy, communication becomes more difficult, and worry and anxiety can take over our lives. Sometimes “drive-by” comments can be misunderstood, simply by how we say it.

Even as we are challenged with change, thoughtful conversation and communication must be prioritized, especially in marriage. What we say and do under stress can create relational barriers, and it doesn’t matter how well we get things done or adapt to our new jobs, school year, etc., we need to nurture our relationships.

Pressure points that come with change can create opportunities to rely on God.

"It's better to remain silent and be thought a fool than open ones mouth and remove all doubt" ­­- Mark Twain (attributed)